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Wednesday, 1 January 2014

A New Year Dawns

So today's the first day of a brand new year - a clean slate, a fresh start, a chance to start anew...... Whatevvvverrrrrr.
Ignore me, because I suspect that it's the lingering whiff of New Years' past which make me feel a little, ahem, negative about New Year, and actually the entire month of January really, because it always meant a dirty word to me - DIET.

This will be my year - I'd tell myself every January - by July, you won't know me,  I'll be three stone lighter, and wear cut off shorts and a bikini top on holidays, like Daisy Duke with a Belfast accent, ginger hair and blue/white skin.....yep, I've always found that setting realistic goals is the key to success.

But thankfully, I'm older and wiser now, and I've long accepted that I'll  never be Daisy Duke...and hey, that's okay. (Sidenote- have you seen her lately? Let's just say, that a little sunscreen wouldn't have gone amiss.)

Yes, even though I try not to measure my self worth by my
weight anymore, its very difficult not to, especially at this
time of the year, with the relentless TV ads, the quick fixes, and the before and after photos in magazines. So I try and remind myself  that, statistically diets don't work in the long run, and that WeightWatchers and Slimming World and others, are just massive corporations, who make huge amounts of money precisely because of that. But it's a hard concept to embrace when my jeans are tight  and my muffin top is off somewhere livin' it large.

So what's the plan, Stan? Well, in 2013 I discovered that the 5:2 thing works pretty well for me, so I'm going to do that for a couple of weeks, just to restore the old  mind and body equilibrium, while still enjoying weekends and caramel squares on the side. No more Daisy Duke fantasies, no more queuing up to step on a scale, no more carrying my self esteem around on a card with numbers on it. Nope, I'm just all about balance and moderation now ...except of course when I'm not....and that's when the Spanx comes out.




Speaking of balance and moderation, as an antidote to all the December excesses, I've decided to go dry for January this year...starting on the 5th. Don't mock me, I would have started today, only Himself and myself are looking forward to a couple of cheeky nights away, minus the kidlets, so I ask you, what's a girl to do? It still means 26 days, which is pretty much February when you think about it. Yikes! To be honest, the weekdays will be grand - I don't usually partake during the week - but there's nothing quite like that Friday and/or Saturday glass of wine, or three. Yes, I know its mostly psychological, and perhaps herbal tea will scratch that itch, but I seriously doubt it, so wish me luck!

I'm poaching a little idea that's doing the rounds on Facebook at the moment, and thankfully involves no deprivation whatsoever - the 'jar of blessings'. Basically, throughout the year you scribble down on a piece of paper the  little things that you're grateful for, or have achieved, or just  make you LOL, and at the end of the year you take them out and read them all. I've decided to do a family one for the kitchen, and although I can foresee issues such as too large writing on massive sheets of paper, and one or two nosy people rifling through the jar long before Next New Year's Eve, I do think it's worth a try.

(I gotta say though, a jar of grudges might be a whole lot
more interesting to read at the end of the year.
'Ah yes indeed, remember that natty old bunch of flowers from the supermarket you bought me on our anniversary?' or
'How could I forget that special time when you hit the neighbour's gatepost and it cost us 500 quid to fix?' Good times....)

I'm also going to make more time for reading and writing this year.....I know, I know, I need actual plans and realistic goals to make this happen, and honestly, I've done sweet FA over Christmas, but on the plus side, I've signed up for Round 2 of my writing course AND I've a little notebook tucked into my bag for words, snippets and ideas when they occur to me....because that's what proper writers do, don't ya know.....so Marion Keyes and Anne Lamott tell me anyway.

Finally, I just want to say thank you for reading anything I've written over the last year - it means so much to me - and to wish you the very best of everything for 2014. I'll leave you with this gorgeous quote by Neil Gaiman, which puts it much better than I ever could.

 "May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you're wonderful, and don't forget to make some art -- write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.”

Happy New Year my loveliesxxxxx







8 comments:

  1. Lovely post as always Emma - I LOVE the idea of a grudge jar...does that make me a miserable aule bint?! Wishing you every success and happiness during 2014 - I want to put a pre-order in for the book as it's going to be fab. And what date in Jan can you do coffee and caramel squares at the Gherkin? xx

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    1. Haha! I'm so glad I'm not alone with the grudge jar! Thanks so much Avril and looking forward to our coffee next week. X

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  2. Happy New Year to you my lovely! Have thoroughly enjoyed your ramblings this year, thank you for sharing :) We did the Thankful Jar this year and opened it last night - such fun! I've blogged about it today...http://www.3childrenandit.com/2014/01/a-fresh-start.html. Happy 2014 to you and now you've inspired my to 'go dry' for January...eek!

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    1. Loving the thankful jar post-hope our experience is as good as yours. And we'll keep each other company in dry January!

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  3. Planning a dry January too. But not starting today either as there are a couple of open bottles of wine left from last nite and it wud be awful to waste it! Happy New Year to you, Damian & your family!

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    1. And to you and yours too Laura xxx

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  4. This resonates so much with me, the weight bit!, I am going for eat less, move more this year and I will see what happens. I despise the idea of diets, I was never fat until I went on a diet - seriously!! Dieting is all well and good, but you cannot diet every day forever. I wish you all the best with your plans and I think that the jar idea is a great one. Hope you have a good few days away with your fella. Happy New Year. xx

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    1. Thanks Amy! We're definitely on the same page diet wise. Happy New Year to you too. Xxx

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